The Christian Teen’s Ultimate Guide to Gift-Giving
It’s almost Christmas and stores are selling out of wrapping paper and gift tags as fast as you can say, “Happy Holidays.”
For those of us who celebrate Christmas – and the gift-giving tradition that so often accompanies it – choosing the perfect present, finding it, buying it, and wrapping it can be a stupefying process.
That’s why I’ve created this handy guide to gift-giving!
The only thing is, I’m not going to tell you what gifts to buy. Or give you suggestions. Or basically give you any advice about actual gifts whatsoever.
Instead I’m going to give you five principles to consider as you give presents this Christmas.
1. Give out of joy.
Your dad doesn’t want that incredibly cool (and expensive) new piece of tech if you give it begrudgingly. The best gifts are given not out of a selfish spirit but out of servile humility. They’re given without complaining.
They’re given out of pure love and gratitude for the person who is receiving your gift. Let that love spill out in delight for the person and excitement about the gift.
2. Give out of the heart.
Getting someone a chocolate bar from the dollar store for Christmas could be the perfect present. Or it could be the worst. It depends on what your motives are. If you are seeking to choose the best present with thoughtful care and consideration, that might lead you to this chocolate bar.
But if your motives are mercenary or selfish and the person you’re giving to hates chocolate (and dollar stores), then that particular gift has not come from the heart.
When you’re preparing to give someone a present, ask yourself a few questions: What do they like? What do they need? What would bless them? What would edify them? Your answers may not even be material or expensive. Perhaps what they’d like is your time or your talent or a casserole or a cut lawn. Get creative.
3. Remember that the gift is just a symbol.
The gift itself is not your love, your care, your joy, or your honor. It’s just a symbol of that. You want a good gift that reflects that, sure, but what matters is not the doll house or the iPhone or the chocolate bar – it’s what they stand for.
Gift giving should be an act of service that expresses the heart-deep reality. Don’t get so wrapped up in the gift itself that you miss what it represents.
4. Give to the glory of God.
We toss this phrase around so much, it almost feels trite. So let me explain it in a fresher way: give so that worship always goes to God. Give in a way that doesn’t reflect the praise to yourself or to the gift, but to the One whose ultimate gift we celebrate this December. We give because He first gave to us.
5. Realize that it really is better to give than to receive.
Truly! Don’t give so that you can get. Get excited about the giving this year. It will change your perspective to having an overflow of gratitude when you do receive. When you get happy about generosity, you’re reflecting the true meaning of Christmas.
That’s what gift-giving is supposed to do – make us generous, joyous individuals who love Jesus so much that we want to give to others to celebrate His worth.
And for the Christian, isn’t that what all of life is supposed to do? Make us generous, happy, and humble as we serve the ultimate Gift-Giver?
We have to adopt giving hearts all year around. Christians should be the most grateful, generous, and joyful people on the planet. That’s because we have received the greatest gift on the planet. We were undeserving recipients when God lavished His mercy and grace on us to save us.
What we celebrate at Christmas – the Incarnation, God made flesh – is the beginning of the life that changed ours. Jesus didn’t stay in a manger. The baby grew up to go to the cross. And the baby grew up to have victory over death. And the baby is ruling and reigning at the right hand of God right now. And He is no longer a baby but our conquering king, Jesus.
That should make us grateful. That should make us happy. And that should make us very generous this Christmas.
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